Sometimes I think we ask God for the right things at the wrong time.For example when you ask Him for growth and He starts revealing and removing people from your life.Then after sometime you are like “hold up,why did he or she or they have to go,I don’t like this”And my answer to you is,He is removing because in some way those certain people would hinder your growth.Maybe they were weighing you down and you did not know it.Maybe you offered more than you needed to and that would wear you out sooner or later.Also it might be that you were deflecting them from what they would become.
Occasionally you have to teach yourself to let go.It’s okay to lose people and its okay to welcome others into your life.You have to cut ties and burn the bridges to ashes so that you do not make mistakes.What is gone is gone ,build something greater and better.After All,we all want to be better than who we were the previous day.And when you start moving all the needed people in your life,and trying to get crazy thoughts out of your mind,I hope that you maintain your peace of mind.As you grow emotionally,physically and spiritually,and you meet people at different levels,I pray that you maintain your character and dignity.